Don't Let Yourself Drown In Self-Pity

I understand we hurt but by focusing on the hurt and the source can be a VERY dangerous thing. We often start focusing on them and begin to drown in so much self pity that we wire our brains in a hatred sort of manner, than loving/forgiving and most importantly understanding. Then we start seeing everyone else as the same and that self pity turns into exclusion of ourselves being thought to feel supposedly against the world. And that could create such a senseless,dangerous and self-destructive character.

Because let's just face it nothing is ever simple, nothing is clear cut. They hurt you? They seem like some narcissist?...But then what about them? Why do they do the things they do? Surely they have hurt in them to be causing someone else hurt.

Moral of the post: Constant self pity and pinpointing someone else's actions can often mislead us in the way we respond to the situation, if you get me...The effort we should be putting in growing from it gets blurred to staying stuck and trying to find some sort of vengeance instead, from 'them'.

I don't know but take something from this, I know we all can...Here's a message I wrote to a friend after he sent me a video of a guy basically losing his shit:

Moral of the post: Stay considerate in the face of inconsideration♥